Today, thanks to electronic communications, social media platforms and dating apps, each of us is connected to thousands of people, any of whom might ignore our posts, chats, texts, or dating profiles, and leave us feeling rejected as a result.In addition to these kinds of minor rejections, we are still vulnerable to serious and more devastating rejections as well.I went to eight different schools in five years, rejection upon rejection.
It’s easy to say take it on the chin – but those who are successful when online dating do take it on the chin!
So get up, dust yourself off and start again with Next Love’s tips.
The reality of life is that rejection will form a part of it––there will be occasions when your job application, your date request or your ideas for change will be rejected by someone, somewhere.
It is a healthy attitude to accept that rejection is a part of life and to acknowledge that what really matters is finding the way to bounce back and try again. You just need to keep your head up and move on because getting rejected is a normal part of life.
There are too many Elliot Rodger types in our midst, so incapable of dealing with rejection that their skewed perspective leads to needless tragedy – on a small or large scale. But you shouldn’t try to make sure she’s hurting, too, by lashing out emotionally (and certainly not physically). We have no more right to a woman’s time & affection that we do to Harvard granting us unconditional admission. Do you think she’s going to hear you call her a stuck-up bitch and say, “Oh, maybe I was wrong about him. How we handle rejection in our romantic lives is a good barometer of how well we’ll adapt when our personal or professional goals meet resistance, too.