The first girl, he said, was “a little too tall,” and the second girl was “a little too short.” Then he met my mom. Let’s look at how I do things, maybe with a slightly less important decision, like the time I had to pick where to eat dinner in Seattle when I was on tour last year.
Another evidence is over 280 success stories on the site. Most Japanese women on the site are in Japan and they are only willing to meet you there, so this is quite important. If you are presently not in Japan, but plan to visit Japan in a short period, you may need to select a city to visit.
Our research also shows the site did help a good number of white men meet, date, and in some cases marry, Japanese women. On one hand, it gives your potential dates some information to know you better. Tokyo seems to be most popular city on Japan Cupid, and many Japanese women live in the metropolitan area.
Because Japan Cupid's main targeted market is dating between white men and Japanese women, a Japanese woman won't join Japan Cupid if she only wants to date a Japanese man. If you are currently in Japan, you may want to point this out in your profile.
So the site presents you a great list of self-selected women who think your fluent English and poor Japanese is an attraction, not a weakness. The site has a time-tested system to match white men with Japanese women. Its current huge popularity is an evidence that the system works. If you are not in Japan, but you plan to visit Japan in the near future, like in one or two months, you may want to add this to your profile.
I asked my dad about this experience, and here’s how he described it: he told his parents he was ready to get married, so his family arranged meetings with three neighboring families. That’s how my dad decided on the person with whom he was going to spend the rest of his life.