The result: a set of rules for what you should and shouldn’t say when introducing yourself. Let’s go: Netspeak, bad grammar, and bad spelling are huge turn-offs.Our negative correlation list is a fool’s lexicon: was also a successful word, but much less so (33%).
Let’s face it, when you boil it all down, meeting women online is essentially a numbers game: The more women you email, the more responses you’ll get, the more phone numbers you’ll get and subsequently the more dates you’ll get. It’s obvious that if the number of emails you send increases, and the percentage of women who reply remains the same, then responses will increase.
This is the most obvious way to get more results and its the first way most men try to improve their online dating results.
Let’s talk about the concept of – which is a big “ah-ha” experience for most guys.
Because most guys (and I’ll bet you’re one of them) want concentrate on sending out more emails first.
We analyzed over 500,000 first contacts on our dating site, Ok Cupid.