Whether it's someone you're meeting online or it's someone your friends know, aim to drop the things you know about them and start fresh.
Don't ask your friends to tell you everything they can because you can end up with a tainted view of what to expect.
You might not be able to figure out who they are either. And there are times when it may not matter that much if a man truly likes you.
But, most men want to feel that a woman is selective about who she is intimate with sexually. Male clients often tell me that when a woman seems easy, they assume she’s loose with guys in general. But because of this attitude, I advise my female clients to hold out, at least past the first date. If we like a man, usually we’re all ready to settle in with them.
You could cast a wide net and sign up for every single dating site.